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The Day Between Lessons

The Day Between Lessons

October 10, 20263 min read

For the past several weeks, I’ve spent Sunday through Friday walking with an idea.

I carry it through the mornings. Turn it over again in the evenings. Try to find where it touches ordinary life—not merely where it sounds wise.

Then Saturday arrives.

I’ve decided Saturday belongs to neither the week just finished nor the one about to begin. It is the day between lessons.

Today, Mary Beth and I are sitting in the shallow water of our leeward beach. A narrow stretch of sandy beach lies behind us, with a palm tree standing between the shore and the dense green jungle beyond. The water is calm. There is no post waiting to be written before the coffee gets cold. No evening lesson already tugging at the back of my mind. I don’t have to make a point out of the water, the weather, or the people passing by.

I can simply be here.

That may sound like doing nothing. I spent much of my life believing that doing nothing was something to be avoided. There was always a watch to stand, a problem to solve, a decision to make, or another destination somewhere beyond the horizon.

Purpose mattered. It still does.

But somewhere along the way, I began to understand that purpose and constant motion are not the same thing.

A compass can tell you where you are headed. It cannot tell you when to stop, look around, and make certain the destination still matters.

That is what Saturday has become for me.

It is a chance to let the previous week settle before asking what comes next. A chance to discover which thoughts still have weight once I stop pushing them forward. Some ideas survive the silence. Others quietly wander off, which is probably where they belonged.

This morning, while we were talking about what next week might hold, Mary Beth offered a simple thought:

“Why don’t you do a whole week about catchphrases and how they apply to life?”

She mentioned one of our favorites:

Walk with purpose.

Just like that, the next week began taking shape.

We all carry phrases like that. Some were handed down by parents, teachers, coaches, chiefs, friends, or people whose names we may no longer remember. We repeat them because they sound right, and often because some part of them is right.

Actions speak louder than words.

Pick your battles.

Trust, but verify.

This too shall pass.

Leave it better than you found it.

Small collections of words that have survived because they contain something recognizable.

But a phrase is not wisdom merely because it fits on a coffee cup.

“Walk with purpose” does not mean hurry everywhere.

“Pick your battles” does not mean avoid everything uncomfortable.

“Trust, but verify” should not become an excuse to trust nobody.

Even “this too shall pass” is not only comfort for difficult days. The good days pass too. That is reason enough to notice them while they are here.

Perhaps these sayings are not answers at all. Perhaps they are invitations—places to begin thinking rather than places to stop.

That is what we’ll explore next week.

But not today.

Today, I’m going to sit beside my wife in the shallow water of our beach in Panama. I’m going to listen to the water, watch the palm trees sway at the edge of the jungle, and resist the urge to turn every passing thought into a lesson.

There are six other days for that.

Tomorrow, we will begin again.

Today, I’m letting the next thought find me.

— Captain Michael

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Retired US Navy Special Operations Officer specializing in diving, salvage and exlosive ordnance disposal. Now living and sailing the Caribbean on our 46ft monohull sailboat.

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